How to identify the mad person.

"Tobi, what about that your babe na?"
"Which babe? Are you mad?"
"Ahn, ahn, why are you shouting? Me i’m not mad o, that girl na, Ngozi abi ki loruko eh?"
"Wo, she’s not my babe o, girl e ti ya werey"
"Eh?"
"Eba, shey you din hear? I say she have craze, she almost stab oga landlord, she even broke his my TV that I on credit, me i’m still paying gbese, she’s not my anything abeg"
"Ahn ahn, Segun, that quiet girl, what did you people do to her?"
"Which one is you people? Farabale o, see how you just concluded that i did something like jumping frog"
"Wo, ode talk"
"Eh, shey you know that i’m bisexual, she say that me and oga landlord we’re doing...shino"
"Eh? but oga landlord is not gay na"
"Shey i’m telling you that she’s mad, come and see how his wife was shouting eh"
"But why would she think that, ahn ahn, something must have made her thing like that, have you done it before?"
"Ehhh....is only one time o, is not that i even like it sef...is mistake o, is her brother that seduce me to do it...

Most scenarios were it seems like one party overreacts it’s often a result of pent up emotions, i don’t believe people overreact, to be very honest, i take the term "Overreacting" as an insult, imagine someone poured hot water on you and while you’re screaming somebody tells you that you’re making a fuss about hot water being poured on you, it’s like their daddy is mad abi? I feel like the term over reacting was created by Mummy Suliat that didn’t want to apologise to Aunty Bilikis for using her wire,telling people they are over-reacting is a way of invalidating their emotions.

Everybody paints a picture of them getting hurt but if the situation is carefully analyzed there is a huge probability that they played a part in the outcome of that scenario, Ngozi did not decide that she wanted to stab oga landlord, she probably noticed the same behavior that occured between her brother and that her werey boyfriend and acted on how her emotions played out, you’re probably thinking her trying to stab oga landlord was her over-reacting but no, she acted on how her emotions played out, she didn’t overreact she just didn’t have control over her emotions, i don’t know where i’m heading with this but if you have sense shey you too you’ll read small meaning, don’t sha tell me I’m overreacting cause you’ll see craze.

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