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Shouldn't her bio describe her?

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Art work by Amy. The fact that Miss Okoli's bio says "I'm funny on most times on YouTube" will always bother me. Nobody asked for my opinion but this is what i think. The concept of social media is to portray yourself as perfect but here's Amy doubting herself, okay maybe she's not doubting herself but basically stating what she thinks. But how can authencity come with the word most times? Rude right? To fully portray your life how it takes both courage and wisdom, authenticity got Amy where she is now and that's one quality everyone should potray. So the A in AMY stands for Authentic. A good book goes through lots of stages, the amount of papers tossed in the trash because the writer didn't like that piece, the sentences erased because it didn't fit, from the writer to the editor, to the proof-reader and other stages it has to face to become a new york best seller and i can say if Amy's life was a book i would buy it in hard copy s...

24 hours with Loni.

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Welcome back to that part of my blog where I talk about the people I meet that lift my spirit.     It is said that when one half finds its other, there’s an unspoken understanding. A unity. And each would know no greater joy than this. I've watched Loni for the past three months, how did I find him? I really can't remember, then he disappeared, he became a one with the wind and we all know we can't chase the wind so I couldn't find him and then he came back and this time he came with the evening breeze, the shiver you feel when cold water lands on your body and he opened my mind to greater possibilities and this is why you can read this piece. *I'm the bathroom, listening to when the party's over by Billie pretending i'm a ballerina and writing this* So here's my view of Loni from one night talking the him. Strong, a risktaker, in touch with nature yet fails to see himself as much as I see him. OLUWALONI.   Observant. Keeping in touch with th...

I wore my glasses so I can have a clear view of Ashley

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I started on this piece by 2am this morning, it was titled she earned her crown and I was hoping she would read this and let me spend a day with her, it wasn't real, it really wasn't. I'm a terrible liar and that piece felt fake, I don't write cause of what I might benefit hence i couldn't write well so i deleted it. I was painting her picture with the wrong ink,. I was creating chapter that wouldn't fit in her book. Here's me with a clear image of the Queen. Yes, she earned her crown. She made her stance, out her foot on the ground and said "It is what it is" she couldn't pretend to be who she wasn't or conform to the ways of the society cause she would be viewed differently. There are lots of stars in the sky this month but the most visible is the one that points at the moon -the Archer. She wasn't put on earth to be a shadow, she's a mirror and can only reflect truth. Energy. There's a certain glee that fills my h...

Korty through my eyes.

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The first words that came into my head were  "I knew Korty was my soul mate when I went through her profile and saw that she knew Vienna by Billy Joel" This was suppose to be a speech I would be giving in an award show, I know what you're thinking and the answer is no or maybe I'm not sure but I'm looking bigger than that, something deeper, a bond like Christmas and Jesus. If cautious was spelt with a K it would be "Kawshus" Did she spend most of her planning and avoiding failure? One could say that, one could say she was scared others would say she was hiding but can I blame her? Can I blame her for thinking outside the box but living inside the box? I think she was growing, she we gathering wood for her cottage and living to her name. There's a company named Original whose sole purpose is to assist Egyptian exporters. I see Korty as someone who doesn't prioritize money but seeks for fulfillment and wholesomeness, i see her as an ope...

It's just a random colour.

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Like coffee and Milk they try to identify us by how we look. The misconception fed to the children is the cause of the tragic matter. A live was lost,several lives have been lost pertaining to this situation but we neglect what should truly matter. Martin Luther King said “ Racism  is man's gravest threat to man - the maximum of hatred for a minimum of reason.” “Seeing is not always believing.” Let's ignore the color of the man who was mudered and focus on the crime,let's look at it on the perspective of "lives matter" A man killed another man and that is unjustifiable, blacks kill other blacks everyday but they don't dwell on that cause they don't realize that they actually don't care about others but when a white man kills another the world is in chaos and all we here is "this white man killed a black man"and this is wrong. Every live matters,every being matters.    I am not trying to justify the actions of this white man but correc...

Rape (Males)

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Rape According to wikepedia, this is said to be a type of sexual assault usually involving sexual penetration carried out on a person without the persons consent. Now unlike most articles,we will not be focusing on female rape, cause they are countless teachings on this, but maybe we should consider the fact that males get raped also, quite shocking right? Naa Alot of disagreements about this topic, but i hope i can create a clearer view for every reader. Now people often say males don't get raped considering the fact that they believe they would actually enjoy it, but we neglect the aspect of dominance Males like to be in control,they do not want to feel led or driven,they would rather drive than be driven and this affects during rape,the rapist makes them the victims,which affects both psychologically and emotionally,leaving the victim traumatized. Different people have different ways of expressing this weakness,some end up becoming rapist,hoping to exercise power and mak...

Depression

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Teenage Depression  Such misunderstanding associated with this word,people see it as a phase, some as something fun, others use it for clout but this isn't just an ordinary word..This 10 letter word affects both the psychological,emotional and physical aspect.... Medically Depression is a feeling of immense sadness and pain which affects the mind. But teens of this days face this trauma greatly,it has no particular cause and can occur due to anything. Each and every human has one thing that breaks it down and when that veil is torn a pathway for depression is open...A depressed person might not know he or she is depressed and their reasons might feel bizarre to you But the tiniest and littlest thing has a great effect on a person all depending on the mentality and emotional status  Major causes of depression 1.Rape 2.Family issues 3.Financial issues 4.Relationship stress 5.Loss of a loved one 6.Medical issues.....etc Rape  A major factor affec...